SILENCE = SOLUTION
ANALYSE = REALISE
"As a part of growing up we are often told \ask to develop this very idea of tolerance and maintaining an attitude of patience against every situation and problem that we come across."
But on our front we hardly care to even give these words a second thought as our parents and elders keep on yelling these words into our ears.
But as we grow and face a variety of people , we realise that at most times an attitude to keep silence is the best way to let things happen in it's own way and to let it settle down as the nature wants it to be.
Guys !!!! , have you ever come across a situation when you just feel that people whom you are close to or whom you really care for , starts hurting you without any reason or may be something which is simply inconsequential????
OR
Have you ever felt that you need to leave thing simply on time and there's simply nothing you can do to work it out????
Living on this very planet and coming across aliens from your own lovely planet ..hope you must have.(lols)
Well in these situations, according to me we just need to sit back and wait for the correct time to react and to answer back rather than answering / explaining , when it simply won't be considered.
Well also in addition to it ,we , at the same time need to keep on analysing that what all is the reason and also what changes going around us and how much adaptive we need to be to understand other's thought process and to realise that there might be something that we forgot to cover up or to explain before that caused this much that now there is a bunch to explain.
"MAY BE THIS SHOULD HAVE BEEN COVERED UP LONG BEFORE"

WAS IT REALLY MARKETING FAIR????

oh! "26Th March-10..should be noted in bold black letters in my note book as World's most pathetic and disgusting day."

I really don't know from where it all started all together but conducting a marketing fair in B.B.A and B.C.A dept, that to in our college was/ is a really unique and a daring idea.Was it done for saving some one's job keeping in mind the recent tragedy in our dept. firing faculty in a bulk , that to those who really brought revolutionary changes in those student's personality who didn't even knew what it means to speak a single word in English.

Well this is not what my topic is , on which I decided to express all together after recuperating from a shock called 'Marketing fair ' conducted in our college premise recently.

"Jokes apart but this was something I seriously mean when I'm typing it 4:00 AM 29Th march in the morning looking forward to see the sun rays touching my eyes and loosing my proper sleep due to this self- disgusted feeling coz of marketing fair."

I cannot agree to world's even best person for argument if he/she tries to prove that....

No offences should be taken, as I completely agree with the fact that from the Student's and few teacher's front it was more than what they really could put in that...I must mention 100% or 101% effort, as they like it,But the kind of management and boast fullness I witnessed from some faculties and how they were so eager to prove that they are always right in their decisions , disgusted me to the hell..A Bull Crap it was..all I could say.

We were like force to do what they really felt like with the tag..It's B.B.A- B.C.A who organised and conducted it"Holy hell to them"

I know we are still budding learners and nothing is/was even possible without guidance ...but mind you..guidance and not their foolish ego clashes and sense of supremacy over others..are people here illiterate..mentally malnutrition or mentally sick ...in simple words????

That's a question ?? Dear reader do answer to it..plz

The kind presentation I silently observed on the D-day reminds me of the days when my Mom&Dad had their posting in a remote village few years back for few days and kind of people I came across then.Here all and each only knows how to show attitude and let others (probably every dog to donkey walking on road) know that how much talented they are.........guys you seriously need to forgive me for Satires being used and I swore I am compelled to do this by the management itself.

Have you ever heard of a Marketing fair full of dance performances and typical B grade stage shows?????tell me....dumb stuck Na!!Yeah ! that's the ugly truth about the marketing fair conducted in our college.

It was from no where even a bit professional and really a management stuff....All it was, was a typical drama going on for whole day.All engrossed in proving how "too" smart (there is a difference BTW too smart and very smart ) they are.

And the worst never forget mention was the anchoring part, how can I forget it being my self an anchor for the show.We (me and co- anchor) were never given a chance to rehearse for the show, didn't even know what we are suppose to speak on the stage till the show started and as a result to that we fumbled , hiccuped, poor- poor it was , all i could say to it.Active volunteers were involved in creating mess near the stage ( utter height of cheapness)...there's is so much I need to express about it in order to at least cool my self down and let the utter disgusting feelings about the show flow in the form of words.

After all this, only thing I could remember is that....one of my friend quit from the show very last day , and in return of which he got only bad comments to which as usual he never- ever give a DAMN to it.(like- he is a irritating person, will never allow him to participate, will never give him chance for any thing etc etc etc....)

All I could remember was his words..."Sanjeevani you gonna regret your participation and I assure u that u won't get any certificates for it.All you'll get it scorching heat for 6 odd hours."

U were right ........thank god u didn't participate in this bull crap, holy .... piece of show.And also to add to all reader's knowledge ..I talked few days back to A very intellect person who was persent there at the show day and guys you should have just gave an ears to his thoughts.

(no offenses should be taken)

Don't be CLOSE (to someone)...

.why not just BE OPEN.....(to all )

"Rain drops just keep falling on my head .....and nothing still worries me"(spider man)

That line quoted seems strange Na!!.....true!! Once upon at time to me also.To avoid problems we rush from this pole to that one of the world, planning, conspiracy and mental corruption becomes a part of our day -to -day routine. Can we have a break please????

Have you ever noticed that once we conceal something close to our heart to someone Else's heart, and there comes a free package of tension free of cost . As being a human being we just can't get rid of this habit completely ..but yes! to an extent control it. We think that concealing it to anyone in any way gonna lighten our heart( well totally irrelevant idea to me), besides ... it shoots more trouble .....If we closely study human nature ..it is really capable of concealing a lot inside without even letting anyone know or get a hint of what exactly one is going through or either UP TO(it can be anything dear)

Still if we find it so tough to manage it's after math...a simple suggestion for all on this.

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Why not just be Open and be same to all instead been a snail in growing your chain of friends not only by letting them know about u but also been equal and similar to all will help one learn how to mange situations, what it means to be diplomat and what it really means to be very generous and not being a mere hypocrite.In this way at a point of time one will be known equally by all and will be equally entertained everywhere

"Being close to someone can be injurious to health"

"Stay open and breath nature Best's fresh Air"

SADNESS IS NOTHING!!!
"As you go through life you see....There's so much that we don't understand
and the only thing we know Is things don't always go the way we planned
But you see everyday that we'll never turned away when it seems all your dreams come undone..
We will stand by your side filled with hope and filled with pride..
We are more than We are.................."
As we grow and plan life , we often come across situations that what ever we planned and dreamt didn't really work...
That's part of life ....This is how we learn and realise that we still are not so good managers as we think....
It's but obvious that these situations brings an unsaid distrust and sadness to our wardrobes...but!!! guys why not we see the brighter side of it...
May be it was necessary..."a need of an hour" what we call it usually.
Getting sad on that and spoiling rest of the parts is simply not a cool idea ....
As it's well said Man propose and god dispose.....He dispose only to bring new and better to us.
At times we think why me....how me and all such.. can I ask you all a question??
Instead of questioning the whole universe for your sorrow...Did You ask your self ever that may be the root cause of whatever happened was perhaps you?????
Easy! Easy! Don't get on your nerve.
My intention is not to pull you down but to tell you that , to what so ever we are victimise to ... we crop it knowingly or unknowingly ourselves only.....
Fro example...... I catch cold quite often... every time I do ..I sit back and think for the reasons this time.
And often I find it was right there on my nose due to my own carelessness, non precautionary and irresponsible attitude.Either I move out in sun soon after spending hours in A.C ,eat too much of cold stuff,Shampoo hair in evening thinking it will induce good sleep after hectic schedule and so on and so forth............
A reason to write all this is to express that all what we face is all what we our self crop...(exceptions apart)
Sadness is nothing but our typical self-victimizing attitude towards life and thinking that one is the most sensitive ,naive , helpless creature on this whole planet
If ever again you feel sad...Just raise a question to your self...
Was I a reason??? How to get rid of it?? How not to repeat it again
..Instead of plugging the most typical list of sad songs in Ur ears and not responding to the world.
"Be True to Ur self that's the mantra"

NEW DAY HAS COME

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!
First of all a very Happy birthday to me.
There comes a very happening and a lovely year ahead ....

I had a very hectic day on 23rd March ..as looking after the upcoming Marketing fair..came back at 4 and went right to the office to take care of the target given to my sister and I was too involved as for the upcoming UGC inspection...A friend of mine called me up to ask about the updates after dropping me at my destination and when heard me still busy simply suggested me to relax , leaving behind all tensions and prepare for ma b'day..one thing he asked me to do is to sit alone and think all my experience in past one year and connect to Almighty..."Thanx friend"...........
I sat at my desk in very corner of the office where else were involved in gossiping and busy doing this week's overtime extra job..
It was around 9:00 PM and I kept thinking about my past experiences and what all new discovered in the last year of my teen...
Wanna share some with you all sweetheart readers......
I had one of the strange year of my life I could and bet will ever have...
It was full of my silly foolishness..too much outflow of my emotional account balance for those who perhaps did not deserve it ..
Too much of shocks for me(both positive and negative)
lets talk about the positive part..
My sister could secure a great job in HR was the happiest moment for me on 22 March 2009..great b'day gift for me(gift for me as i had an eye on her salary.. lols)

great emotional shock in the mid of the year...never expected as i say but thanx god it happened.
Found great life time friends ... thanx ..Anubha, VK, poonam, sadhna, Neha ,sudha gang ,Bhavya, Nitin,Supriya u are always there I know.....etc..
Got a job opportunity as an HR Coordinator..I felt good ...that's it for BLINGS..
Strange missions by my friends ...their accomplishment..Pizza party on a rainy Sept. afternoon
Left hostel!! AH!! great relief
I don't know how much I have to share ...How much to write ..
It's five in the morning and still feel like keep writing..
We'll have a G.D on it...lols
Having party on break-up days and instead of consoling ..planning hangouts, to relieve stress.Those unbearable coffees at nescafe still love this place...
I had a great year and something can never forget ever in life..even if I get this acute memory lose issues(gajini)
Thanks to my last year of teen ...a warm goodbye to it.....
Loving it...that's all I can say

Our Journey Has Only Began........

JUST LET THINGS GO AND THEY WILL COME BACK

"If there's so much I must be?? Can I still just be me ....the way I'm??"
These are the lines of song "We are one" from the movie LION king which has been a great inspiration to me thorugh my journey since very childhood.
We need to be just what we are and not change according to situations life bring to us.......
My motive to write this blog is that life has a great dimension and we can see just a part of it at a time..that's what we mistakenly define as "good times and bad times".
If I add my thoughts to this above said line...then I will say and has experienced it well that our bad times can be really good to us and leave a great impression that we went through it and simultaneously what we call our good time can simply prove to be a bad patch of life when we move ahead and look behind
I really don't wanna go philosophical but to tell that if something slips from our hand , then we should simply let it go...It will come back to us when nature will decide it to show ...As I said IT has a great dimension ..we need to just broaden our visions...Thats the cycle of nature if it's taking away something..then look carefully, you'll surely find something similar still better than that. We just need to realise that as we lose...so we gain(Thats the law of nature ...to balance it all)

Want an Answer????

we are a part of a generation called GEN-X, super fast kids, Bohemians, Freaks and New Indian nd don't know how many such synonyms has been awarded to us and are still on list??
Yes ! I agree to one of the reasons which has led us earn so much adjectives and words of praise from those who take 'Bird eye of us' that is ...We are too-oo fast.
It's upto 90% true that we jump on decisions too quickly without analysing all thje simple present and future aspects of it....
May be a Kind of confused generation...hey! hey ! this is not said by me...look behind..you'll find many...
WHY????
A simple answer to this we have been given too much of freedom and we knowingly or by mistake make a wrong us of it
We conclude things just by being getting pulled by the outer-over of the book instead of going through it once before adding it to library
Geting my point?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Khatarnak parents!!!

It's well said and a true fact that Parents are simply GOD. The idea of life comes right from their heart.....No offences should be taken but now lets see another reality related to all parents of this world.
They really care ....so much that its really hard to convience them that we are also real human beings.And a strange thing I resently noticed about mine and of little those who are close to me that no matter how much strong they are , they always panic on small thing when it comes to us..I know I know..it"s because they care but at times we miss the opportunity to grow coz of this...
I really wanted to share once incidence which motivated to post this blog at 3:00 AM of my birthday....
I was not so regular in my college due to my other important engagements ...so as expected my Director(only vella insan on planet) called at home and told my parents about this.. U know guuys !!! since then my life become a real hell.
There's simply no issues of attendence in our college still he said he'll expel me and so my lovely PAPA got scared and u know I bet half of his Salary must be spent on calling me and asking how many days I attend college ...how much assignment I complete in a week........ and so on and so forth...
There are few more incidences which will coming in my following posts which definitely make think once........
Uff!!! my dear innocent papa and all those innocent papa's ...try once to see life in this way too.